I don’t look back; I’m not going that way. Advice / Help.
Re: Why does my sister want to live in the past To be honest it makes total sense that she wants to talk about something that was traumatising. If you judge me by my past don’t be surprised when you become part of it. Hello. You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep rereading the last one. What to say to someone who keeps bringing up your past. You’re like a plunger, you keep bringing up old shit.
As the title says, my sister keeps making comments about past relationships I've been in. He will bring up stuff from 5+ years ago – throwing it in my face as I cry, and he just keeps going and going..even though when we got back together, I told him how bad it hurts me that he can’t let go of some of my mistakes, and that I have proven time and time again that I am not that same person, and that he can’t keep doing this to me. I think it would be better to explain that you can't cope with hearing about it, rather than asking why she keeps walking down memory lane.
My sister keeps bringing up past relationships.